Matthew 20 & 22: Many Are Called, But Few Are ChosenBoth Matthew 20:16 and 22:14 are both from parables about Heaven where Jesus says, "For many are called, but few are chosen." We are all called to be children of God. He loves His creation and desires that none should perish (2 Peter 3:9 The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to REPENTANCE.) There is no mistaking that we are all called to follow Jesus by repenting of our sins and living lives for His glory alone.
The sad truth is, however, that only a few will answer the call. Most will turn away and reject the Savior and refuse to follow Biblical principles. Others will answer but fall away and not endure to the end. These people are represented as those called that were "not worthy" in Matthew 22:8 and also as the man who showed up to the wedding feast (Heaven) without a wedding garment in Matthew 22:12.
Being "chosen" means we have done our best to live holy lives pleasing unto the Lord until the day we leave this world. (Romans 12:1 I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.) Only then will we be chosen to spend eternity with Christ.
(Matthew 20:1 & 15-16) For the kingdom of heaven is like unto a man that is an householder, which went out early in the morning to hire labourers into his vineyard.
"Is it not lawful for me to do what I will with mine own? Is thine eye evil, because I am good? So the last shall be first, and the first last: for many be called, but few chosen."
(Matthew 22:8-14) Then saith He to his servants, "The wedding is ready, but they which were bidden were not worthy. Go ye therefore into the highways, and as many as ye shall find, bid to the marriage."
So those servants went out into the highways, and gathered together all as many as they found, both bad and good: and the wedding was furnished with guests.
And when the King came in to see the guests, he saw there a man which had not on a wedding garment: And He saith unto him, "Friend, how camest thou in hither not having a wedding garment?"
And he was speechless.
Then said the King to the servants, "Bind him hand and foot, and take him away, and cast him into outer darkness, there shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth. For many are called, but few are chosen."