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Saturday, May 2, 2026

Genesis 2:18-24: They Shall be One Flesh

 




I started my Bible journey in the New Testament with Matthew through Revelation, so now let's explore the Old Testament and go back to Genesis through Malachi!

Genesis 2:18-24: They Shall be One Flesh

Genesis 2:18

God created woman for man to be his helper.  I count it a very high privilege to be my husband's helper.  I get to be his cheerleader and encourager.  To lift him up when he is down.  To help him build and follow his dreams.  To make him feel wanted, desired, and loved.  To show him the love of God and lighten his burdens.

Of course, husbands can and should also support their wives.  Mel is my helper as well.  When we read Ephesians chapter 5, we learn even more how a husband and wife are designed to honor, respect, and love one another with the pure love of Jesus Christ.

It is very easy to be my husband's help meet (mate) because God gave me the gift of being Mel's wife.  It is a joy to take care of one I love so deeply.  Thank you, God, for making me just for Mel and hm for me!


Genesis 2:21-24

When God created Eve, He took one of Adam's ribs to create her.  When Adam declared, "This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh," he meant it quite literally!  

When it says in verse 24 that "a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh," it was clearly speaking of everyone after Adam and Eve, including us, as neither of them had a parent to leave.  

Make no mistake, when we marry, we become one flesh, and we are to put our spouse above everyone and everything else.  The definition of cleave means "cling to," but also "to be faithful to."  That means we are to be loyal to our loved one above all and place them first, with the exception of God of course.

It is a beautifully blessed thing to be united as one flesh with your spouse; treat that honor like gold!

(If you are interested, I also write a blog on how to have a great marriage titled, The ABCs of a Joyful Marriage https://abcsofajoyfulmarriage.blogspot.com/ )

(Genesis 2:18-24) And the Lord God said, "It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a help meet for him." And out of the ground the Lord God formed every beast of the field, and every fowl of the air; and brought them unto Adam to see what he would call them: and whatsoever Adam called every living creature, that was the name thereof. 

And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him. And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof; And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.

And Adam said, "This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man."

Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

Friday, May 1, 2026

Revelation 21:7-8: "We do not want to be eternally separated from those we love."

 



 Revelation 21:7-8: "We do not want to be eternally separated from those we love."

This is another blog inspired by a dream I had last night (Originally posted on July 19, 2021). I am not certain if this dream was from God or from my own imagination.  Either way, the dream has a message I feel I should share.   

I dreamt my husband and I ran into a man (I will call him Friend, even though he did not have a name in the dream) that had been a close friend to my late brother.  Now, let me stop right there; I have never had a brother. Therefore, if this dream was from the Lord, the "brother" in the dream may have been symbolic of my spiritual brothers and sisters.  While Friend was speaking to me, I noticed another man (I will call him Watcher) standing somewhat behind Friend and listening very closely to the conversation.  My husband also often has angels in his dreams silently watching all that transpires.  I am not certain this second man represented an angel or not, but I believe he did.  Friend took a wild trip down memory lane and was telling me all about my brother's crazy ways and how funny it had been when my brother had wrecked his vehicle when he was drunk.  In fact, all Friend's memories of brother were of rules broken and all-around rebellious ways.

Watcher studied me very closely and looked at me with an expectant expression as if he wanted me to stand up for the things of God instead of silently listening to all the bad acts that had been committed by my late brother. Friend then began to complain that he and Brother had grown sick and tired of all of their family members always preaching to them.  He said it was what had ended his friendship with Brother because Brother eventually caved in, became a Christian, and gave up his ungodly habits.  Friend said he was angry with those that had taken his best friend away from him.

Again, Watcher gave me a look that let me know I was expected to speak up for the Truth.  It was then that it seemed the Holy Spirit took control of my words.  I began to boldly explain to Friend that the reason those with holiness beliefs preach so often about what the Bible says about sin is because those sins can keep them from the kingdom of God.  I pointed to my husband and said that I love him so very much and I cannot stand to be away from him for even an hour. I then said, "Imagine being separated from someone you love for all eternity. The reason we talk about the things of God is because we do not want to be eternally separated from those we love.  We cannot stand the thought of anyone going to hell. The idea of being separated from our loved ones for all eternity is what drives us to speak out and risk rejection and humiliation.  It is out of love for you and others that drives our actions to warn against the sins that can lead you to hell. Not judgmentalism, not legalism, not self-righteousness, but love. Pure love.  Now imagine that kind of love magnified greater than you can fathom.  It is how much God loves you, and He does not want to be eternally separated from you either."

By the time I had finished my speech my husband, Watcher, and Friend's eyes were all filled with tears.  I had said enough to make Friend willing to listen to more things about God and holy living. 

Are you willing to risk being separated for all eternity from those you love?  Time is very, very short.  If you are a believer, now is the time to speak out for holiness.  If you are not a Christian, now is the time to study the Bible and learn what it says about holiness. Be humble enough to allow the Holy Spirit to gently convict you of your sins, repent, and return to God.  

(2 Peter 3:9) The Lord... is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance. 

(John 3:16) For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. 

(Galatians 5:19-21) Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God. 

(Revelation 21:7-8) He that overcometh shall inherit all things; and I will be his God, and he shall be my son. But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death. 

Thursday, April 30, 2026

Daddy's Girls & Hallelujah! (Poems)




Daddy's Girls & Hallelujah (Poems)

Because I shared my short story, "Streets of Gold" in my last post, I figured I would also share these as well. As I mentioned in the note before the short story, my dad, Otto, went home to be with Jesus on January 23, 2022. I am not a very good poet, but writing these poems was very healing for me.

Daddy’s Girls


Two little girls,

One redhead one blonde,

Enticing Daddy to play,

“Come on, Daddy, come on!”


Daddy prepared sermons, and worked a second job, 

But when the work was done,

There were Daddy-Daughter days,

With roast beef and ice cream cones.


We made believe we were robots,

Where pretzels became energy cells,

We sang silly bedtime songs,

And Daddy prayed all was well.


As the little girls grew up,

As all of us must do,

We began to go our own ways,

And times with Daddy were few.


Yet Daddy was still our support,

And encouraged us as we dreamed,

He would cheer every achievement,

And tell us defeat was not as bad as it seemed. 


Then came college,

And marriage for the elder,

As he walked her down the aisle,

Daddy released her to another man’s shelter.


A family became divided,

And hearts were shattered,

But we all continued to love,

And forgave when it mattered.


Father became friend as the younger remained single,

Their bond was ever so strong,

As they shared life’s ups and downs,

Until it was time for both to move on.


A husband for the daughter,

God’s gift of joy from above,

A new wife and new location for Daddy, 

They were separated but both happy with new love.


Through the distance his daughters kept in touch,

But Daddy’s health was in danger,

First a heart attack with many complications,

Many surgeries, and even cancer.


Prayers upon prayers,

Tears upon tears,

His daughters worried for Daddy

Afraid for the worst in a sea of fears.


Daddy fought like a warrior,

But his enemy was stronger,

For reasons unknown,

Daddy could stay here no longer.


They cried and screamed,

They ached beyond measure in their pain,

But they could rejoice Daddy was at peace in Heaven,

Knowing they would someday see him again.


Two grown women,

One redhead, the other blonde,

Saying, "Daddy, we will miss you,

But in our hearts, you are never gone."


Thankful for his legacy of faith,

Teaching them the Truths of Old,

Knowing God is in control,

Someday they will join him on the Streets of Gold.


-Julie 05/14/22




This poem is based on true events. I had indeed had a dream about my dad leaving in the middle of a conversation, and I was racing after him, begging him to stay longer. Four years later, and I still have similar dreams from time to time. But the truth is, I would not have him back for anything. My daddy is in perfect peace and health in Heaven, and much, much happier there!

It is also true that my dad's widow told me that my dad's last word right before he passed to Heaven was, "Hallelujah!" The last week or so of his life his cancer had spread to his brain, he had gone blind, and he was not speaking. However, his wife still played worship music for him and right in the middle of one of the songs (I don't know which one), he suddenly called out, "Hallelujah!" and was gone to glory shortly after.

As the late singer Howard Goodman once said (this is paraphrasing), it is very difficult to say good-bye to those we love, however, don't think of them as being in our past, but in our future because we will see them again. Hallelujah indeed!


Hallelujah!


I had another dream,

Where we were having a casual chat,

So much like we used to do,

When you suddenly announced you must go,

You could not stay any longer;

As you swiftly began your exit,

I raced after you trying to keep up,

Pleading, “Don’t go yet, Dad,

There’s so much more I want to say!”

But you did not reply,

And you were gone.


I awoke enveloped in a heavy cloak of sadness,

Missing you with such an ache;

Hopes and fears in my heart I want to share,

Yet these conversations we will never have;

In spite of my grief,

I could not cry,

Instead, I began to pray.


So many words came back to me then,

Our last conversation 

When you could scarcely speak,

And I said, “It’s okay, Daddy,

Just know I love you very much.”

I remembered how often you told me you loved me,

And how much you loved my husband,

And you prayed for us daily.


I remembered that your wife shared with me

Your very last word,

When you were surrounded by those you loved,

She played praise music for you;

Although you had not spoken for a while,

Before you left, you clearly said,

“Hallelujah!"


Just one word,

One word that soothes my soul;

One word to let me know

You were ready to go;

One word to give me peace;

You are in perfection now,

Walking down streets of gold,

Embraced in pure love from God;

One word to bring comfort,

Reminding me I will see you again.


Though I still have much more to say,

I must let you rush ahead,

To a place where you are safe and free,

In the holy presence of Jesus,

Where your pain is gone,

And you can rest and find joy;

Hallelujah, indeed!


- Julie 06/06/22

(Revelation 21:4-5 & 21) And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away. And he that sat upon the throne said, “Behold, I make all things new.” And the twelve gates were twelve pearls: every several gate was of one pearl: and the street of the city was pure gold, as it were transparent glass. 

Wednesday, April 29, 2026

Revelation 21: 4 & 21: Streets of Gold (A Short Story)

 

 


NOTE: This was originally written on December 8, 2016.  The first time I re-posted this was on January 23, 2022.  Less than two hours later, my precious daddy, Otto, lost his battle with cancer and went home to be with Jesus.  God had obviously brought this post to my mind as a way to comfort me. I hope this short story ministers to you as much as it has to me. This is for you, Daddy.

Revelation 21: 4 & 21: Streets of Gold (A Short Story)

Visiting the elderly community at the Rosy Acres Nursing Home was an expected duty of the pastor at the Fruit of the Vine Church.  Yet, like most ministers, Pastor Adam was too busy to be bothered with such a depressing assignment.  It was not a profitable task as the folks living in the under-funded home did not have the money to donate to the church or were too senile to know the difference.  However, the residence was within the church's jurisdiction, so he was obligated to make sure his church was represented along with all the other denominations.  After all, at least some of the elderly people still had living relatives that were able to tithe their ten percent.

Three months ago, Christopher Melton, a single man, had begun attending the church.  Christopher had moved to Webster to become the new principal at the elementary school.  He was in his late thirties and had voiced a strong desire to serve the Lord.  He had been a street evangelist in the larger cities and wrote a blog encouraging his readers to live holy lives.  Pastor Adam had not bothered to read any of Christopher's blogs but based on how much the principal was liked by his deacons, he decided that Christopher was the perfect man to which he could pass the responsibility of the nursing home.  Christopher had taken on the assignment with gusto and made a point to visit the residents every Saturday morning.  Today was no exception.

As Christopher walked the crooked sidewalk toward the dwelling place of the elderly, it amused him as it did every week, that there were no rose bushes planted at the Rosy Acres Nursing Home.  A few Butterfly Bushes adorned the end of the sidewalk near the front door, but other than that, the small lawn was devoid of plant life.  He has asked Pastor Adam if the church would consider donating half a dozen rose bushes to the home as well as the labor to plant them.  The minister had amiably assured Christopher it was a wonderful idea and would immediately comply but had yet to follow through on his promise.  Christopher knew nothing about plants, but as soon as he received his next paycheck, he determined he would purchase the bushes and would take on the task of planting them. 

The smell of too much bleach assaulted his nostrils as he entered into the lobby.  At least no one could complain the staff did not do an adequate job of properly keeping the place clean and disinfected.

A strange conglomeration of framed pictures adorned the walls, depicting anything from beautiful bay horses in the midst of a gallop across a beach at an unknown ocean, to small children in overalls catching frogs, and even one of a bunny with eyes and ears far too large for its little grey head holding a bouquet of carrots.  He assumed the artwork had been donated, and neither the staff nor the residents mattered what they saw every day on the sea green walls as long as it was cheerful.  

"Good morning, Mr. Melton," the pretty red-haired, hazel eyed receptionist greeted.

Christopher hoped he was not flushing as he returned the salutation.  "Good morning, Miss Bethany."

Even if the home had not had a receptionist as beautiful as Cherry Bethany, Christopher would have continued his Saturday ritual.  However, he looked forward to seeing her every week, and every week he assured himself would be the last time he was too shy to invite her to coffee.  He had spotted her at his church now and again, but she typically worked on Sundays and could only attend on Wednesday evenings.  He had also promised himself to approach her at church, but she always sat with her three sisters, and he never felt comfortable intruding.

The first order of business when he arrived was to sign his name in the visitor's log.  He always scanned the names of the other guests, but rarely saw any that he recognized.  It was a shame more people from the church could not find the time to visit the shut-ins.  They were lonely and craved company.  Just an hour a week to have lunch with the group in the cafeteria would have been enough.  Yet most people stayed away, afraid to be reminded that this too could someday be their fate.  No one wanted to face the facts that they would also grow old and weak.  No one wanted to be reminded they were mortal.

The typical routine was for Christopher to meet the residents in the gathering room after breakfast and sing with them.  The piano was usually out of tune, but no one seemed to mind.  Christopher had been given the gift of a beautiful singing voice and was willing to share it for the glory of the Lord.  After an hour of singing, he would typically spend another one to two hours visiting with those in the gathering room.  Then he would go to each and every room of the patients too sick to leave their beds.  Not everyone permitted him to enter their rooms, of course, but he approached them all regardless of the previous week's acceptance or refusal.  He would never waste an opportunity to pray and minister to those in want or need.

This week's schedule was the same as every week.  He sang a dozen or so hymns, played a game of checkers with seventy-nine-year-old Mr. Ebbs, listened to stories about World War II from eighty-nine-year-old Mr. Paulson, and told eighty-seven-year-old Mrs. Clarence how well her six grandchildren were doing at Webster Elementary.  But when he was about to share a butterscotch fudge recipe with Mrs. Salinas, a gentle hand was placed on his shoulder, interrupting them.

"I am sorry to intrude, Mr. Melton, but Mrs. Simon in room 127 is requesting to see you right away.  She says it is urgent."

Christopher looked back at the kind face of Nurse Washington; her deep brown eyes filled with tears.

Christopher stood from the blue gingham couch to follow the nurse and hastily promised the patients he would see them all again next week.

"She's slipping fast," the nurse informed him with a voice saying she would never get used to seeing the patients she loved face such a fate. 

"Has her family been contacted?"  he wondered.

"Cherry has reached most of them.  They should be arriving soon," the nurse revealed, pushing away a tear off her brown cheek that had escaped her left eye.

Say what you will about the mismatched paintings, the rose-less lawn, or the overpowering chemical smells, but the staff of Rosy Acres was all heart.  They loved their residents and treated them like family. He thanked God every day for such a staff and prayed they would only ever employ such compassionate people.

"Mrs. Simon?"  Christopher apprehensively stuck his head inside the door.

"Come in, Chris.  Come in."  Her voice was fragile, yet full of joy. 

She was the only one he allowed to use the shortened version of his name.  And that was because it was what his own deceased grandmother had called him.  Her beautiful silver-white hair and humble intelligence often reminded Christopher of his grandmother Louisa.

Christopher entered and sat on the forest green corduroy easy chair next to her bedside.  It had been turned toward the bed to face the patient.

Her face was pale as she sat propped up on a fluffy mountain of pillows.  Each pillowcase had been hand-stitched by her own arthritic hands.  Each year she was there, she took on the project of starting a new cover.  She had made a total of five.

Mrs. Opal Simon, a widow of seventeen years, was four months shy of turning ninety.  She had survived lung cancer in the late eighties and several heart attacks these past ten years or so.  She was tough and yet so very tender.  She was a lover of animals and music.  She faithfully read her bible every day until her eyes became too dim, and then Nurse Washington became her eyes.  She had not been placed in a nursing home out of lack of love from her family as some here had been.  No, Mrs. Simon was well-loved by three children, five grandchildren, and eight great-grandchildren.  She had become a resident on her own insistence.  She had independently lived alone since her husband Kenneth had died but had always been terribly lonely.  Her children and grandchildren did their best to look in on her and keep her company, but they all had busy lives of their own.  She never wanted to be an obligation or a burden to anyone.  After a stroke five years ago that left her partially paralyzed in her left arm, and then her eighteen-year-old Siamese cat Thai had died, she knew it was time to let go of her self-reliance and allow others to take care of her.

Opal stretched out a weak hand toward Christopher.  He leaned forward and took the thin, cold hand.

"Would you like me to pray with you?"  He asked.

"No, no, I want you to give my family a message," she insisted.

"Yes, ma'am of course."

Her bright blue eyes sparkled, and a smile of peace spread across her vein-lined lips as he had never seen before.

"I'm ready," she said, "Make sure they know I'm ready to meet my Heavenly Father.  I have lived a life as Biblically as I know how.  I have practiced the words of Jesus and taught them to my children and their children.  Remind them, Chris.  Remind them it takes a heart of true repentance and a life spent on one's knees to be ready.  Without holiness, no man shall see the Father.  Remind them, Chris.  Tell them I was ready."

His green-blue eyes filled with tears, and he could scarcely say a word.  He managed a weak, "Yes, ma'am." 

"My Kenneth is waiting for me."  She laughed then.  "Oh, how I can't wait to be in his arms again!  I hope he will recognize me in my new body.  I'll know him by his shining blue eyes!  No matter how much younger he will look, I'll always know those eyes that stole my heart seventy years ago."

Opal closed her eyes, and her breathing became so shallow it made Christopher's heart pound with panic.  Yet, three minutes later, she opened her eyes again.  They were not the eyes of a dying old woman, but of a much younger woman exuding joy unspeakable and full of glory!

"Oh, Chris, I can't wait to see it all!  I can't wait to fall at the feet of my Lord and worship Him day and night!  I wonder what the streets of gold will feel like beneath my bare feet!"  She giggled like a small child. "I wonder if Thai's paws will slip and slide on the slick surface!"

Christopher laughed at the imagery.

"Yes, Chris, laugh!  Do not mourn for me.  Wipe away those tears and remind my family to do the same!  Remind them I am going to a Place with no more sorrow, no more tears.  If they too read their Bibles and follow in the footsteps of Jesus, we will see each other again.  Remind them, Chris.  I want to see them all again.  Please remind them.  Remind them salvation is a free gift, but they still need to repent of their sins and to live every single day as a day separated unto the Lord.  Not to imitate the world, but to live apart from it, pure and holy.  Remind them, Chris.  I want to hug them again soon!"

"I promise, Mrs. Simon, I will repeat every word you have said."

"I knew you would.  You are a good man.  A rare diamond among thorns.  Don't waste your life single.  Get married and have lots of babies and grandbabies.  Cherry is single too, you know."

Right to the last minute, Opal was still trying to play matchmaker between the principal and the receptionist.  It had not been the first time she had gently tried to encourage him in such a fashion.

Her hand in his grew colder and her complexion waned farther. 

"It's time I go to my Father.  Oh, Chris, I am so happy!  Do not weep.  Be jealous of me.  Soon I will be singing with the angels songs of praise to my King!"

She slightly shivered in his grip, and she was gone.

Christopher looked to Nurse Washington standing in the doorway, tears trickling down her cheeks as much as his own, and yet he was filled with a sweet spirit of calm.

He could not see her behind the nurse, but he heard Cherry's tender voice announce that several carloads of Mrs. Simon's family had arrived.

Christopher stood from the chair and wiped his eyes.

"Are you ready to face her family, Mr. Melton?"

He nodded with a confident smile.  "I am ready," he assured, "I am ready to tell them all she told me.  I will remind them how happy she is now.  How she walks on streets of gold in a prefect body free of all aches and pains, reunited with her dear husband.  I am ready to remind them what the Bible says about both grace and righteousness. Yes, Nurse Washington, I am ready. Pray with me that they are ready to listen."




(Hebrews 12:14) Follow peace with all men, and holiness, without which no man shall see the Lord:  

(2 Corinthians 6:17) Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you. 

(1 Peter 1:8) Whom having not seen, ye love; in whom, though now ye see him not, yet believing, ye rejoice with joy unspeakable and full of glory. 

(Revelation 21:4) And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away.  

(Revelation 21:21) And the twelve gates were twelve pearls: every several gate was of one pearl: and the street of the city was pure gold, as it were transparent glass.