Striving to Obtain Salvation Versus Striving in the Flesh Versus Striving for Holiness
Is that a confusing enough title for you? I apologize for that but let me show you how my hyperactive brain came up with this blog topic (I wish my body had as much energy as my brain). For some reason, when I was making my bed yesterday, I kept thinking of the phrase, "striving in the flesh." Maybe because every time I have to make my bed I have to literally pull the mattress back to the left as it shifts in the night. It is heavy and doesn't move easy, so maybe that was why my mind went to fighting against something that was difficult. Then my mind went to realizing that it is probably confusing to try to differentiate between striving to obtain our salvation versus striving in the flesh versus striving for holiness. I will do my best to try to explain all.
The definition of the word strive is "make great efforts to achieve or obtain something." Keep that in the back of your thoughts as your read this.
Striving for our salvation is a works-based theology. Many false religions tell you that you need to earn your way to Heaven by being a good person. Some say you have to keep a bunch of old laws that are no longer relevant to today (I just recently posted a writing on the new covenant, so I won't elaborate on that now, but here is that link if you are interested: https://thankful-julie.blogspot.com/2026/09/the-parallel-between-new-covenant-and.html). Or you must go on a certain number of missions, give a set amount of money to the church, get married, have babies, women cannot cut their hair, etc., in order to earn your way to Heaven. Being a good person or meeting certain quotas has nothing to do with salvation. The only way to Heaven is through the blood of Jesus Christ.
Therefore, no matter how hard one tries to strive to obtain a key to Heaven, it will always be impossible. You cannot buy your way to the throne of God through good works.
(Ephesians 2:8-10) For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast. For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them.
(Ephesians 1:7) In whom we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of his grace;
(Colossians 1:12-14) Giving thanks unto the Father, which hath made us meet to be partakers of the inheritance of the saints in light: Who hath delivered us from the power of darkness, and hath translated us into the kingdom of his dear Son: In whom we have redemption through his blood, even the forgiveness of sins:
The above verse is a great example of showing we cannot save our own souls, yet we still are expected to walk in good works. And in this case, our works do matter (Matthew 16:27 - For the Son of man shall come in the glory of his Father with his angels; and then he shall reward every man according to his works.). Which is where the subject of striving can get complicated. For one thing now it becomes striving in the flesh versus striving for holiness.
When we strive in the flesh we are striving against the things of God. We are fighting an inner turmoil in trying to win the war against sinful habits. This war within us is often in rebellion against God. Going back to the definition of strive, we are working for our own agenda to obtain what we want. We do not care if our goals go against Biblical principles. Our motives are entirely self-centered rather than God-centered. This displeases the Lord.
Although the word striving is not used, you can see how this next set of verses relates to striving in the flesh:
(Romans 8:5-8) For they that are after the flesh do mind the things of the flesh; but they that are after the Spirit the things of the Spirit. For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace. Because the carnal mind is enmity against God... So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God.
(Romans 13:9 & 11-14) For this, Thou shalt not commit adultery, Thou shalt not kill, Thou shalt not steal, Thou shalt not bear false witness, Thou shalt not covet; and if there be any other commandment, it is briefly comprehended in this saying, namely, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. And that, knowing the time, that now it is high time to awake out of sleep: for now is our salvation nearer than when we believed. The night is far spent, the day is at hand: let us therefore cast off the works of darkness, and let us put on the armour of light. Let us walk honestly, as in the day; not in rioting and drunkenness, not in chambering and wantonness, not in strife and envying. But put ye on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make not provision for the flesh, to fulfil the lusts thereof.
(Galatians 5:16-17,19-21 & 24-25) This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh. For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would. Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God. And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit.
(Colossians 3:5-10) Mortify therefore your members which are upon the earth; fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection, evil concupiscence, and covetousness, which is idolatry: For which things' sake the wrath of God cometh on the children of disobedience: In the which ye also walked some time, when ye lived in them. But now ye also put off all these; anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy communication out of your mouth. Lie not one to another, seeing that ye have put off the old man with his deeds; And have put on the new man, which is renewed in knowledge after the image of him that created him:
(1 Peter 2:11) Dearly beloved, I beseech you as strangers and pilgrims, abstain from fleshly lusts, which war against the soul;
When we strive for holiness, we are striving for the things of God. When you read the next set of verses, you will see that God is very pleased when we strive to walk down paths of righteousness. I will start with the words of Jesus:
(Luke 13:23-24) Then said one unto him, "Lord, are there few that be saved?" And He said unto them, "Strive to enter in at the strait gate: for many, I say unto you, will seek to enter in, and shall not be able."
Striving to enter through the gates of Heaven is trying to obtain the perfect prize of eternal life with Jesus. This is not the same as striving to earn our salvation.
Goodness, I hope this all makes sense! Let me give you a few more verses:
(Colossians 1:9-10, 12-14, & 27-29) that ye might be filled with the knowledge of his will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding; That ye might walk worthy of the Lord unto all pleasing, being fruitful in every good work, and increasing in the knowledge of God; Giving thanks unto the Father, which hath made us meet to be partakers of the inheritance of the saints in light: Who hath delivered us from the power of darkness, and hath translated us into the kingdom of his dear Son: In whom we have redemption through his blood, even the forgiveness of sins: To whom God would make known what is the riches of the glory of this mystery... which is Christ in you, the hope of glory: Whom we preach, warning every man, and teaching every man in all wisdom; that we may present every man perfect in Christ Jesus: Whereunto I also labour, striving according to His working, which worketh in me mightily.
(1 Corinthians 9:24-25) Know ye not that they which run in a race run all, but one receiveth the prize? So run, that ye may obtain. And every man that striveth for the mastery is temperate in all things. Now they do it to obtain a corruptible crown; but we an incorruptible.
You can see that striving in the context of the above passages is a good thing as we strive for holiness in the Lord! We are not trying to earn His love, but want to do the right things to please the Lord who loves us and we so love as well! There is no hidden agenda behind choosing God's ways over the world's.
In case you are interested, this may also help this topic make more sense, here is a link to another recent writing I did titled "The Message of Salvation:" https://thankful-julie.blogspot.com/2026/09/the-message-of-salvation.html
I will end here with both 1 Peter & 1 John as they both beautifully sum up this blog.
(1 Peter 1:2-3 & 13-19) God the Father, through sanctification of the Spirit, unto obedience and sprinkling of the blood of Jesus Christ: Grace unto you, and peace, be multiplied. Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, which according to his abundant mercy hath begotten us again unto a lively hope by the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead.
Wherefore gird up the loins of your mind, be sober, and hope to the end for the grace that is to be brought unto you at the revelation of Jesus Christ; As obedient children, not fashioning yourselves according to the former lusts in your ignorance: But as he which hath called you is holy, so be ye holy in all manner of conversation; Because it is written, Be ye holy; for I am holy.
And if ye call on the Father, who without respect of persons judgeth according to every man's work, pass the time of your sojourning here in fear:
Forasmuch as ye know that ye were not redeemed with corruptible things, as silver and gold, from your vain conversation received by tradition from your fathers; But with the precious blood of Christ, as of a lamb without blemish and without spot:
(1 John 1:5-9) This then is the message which we have heard of him, and declare unto you, that God is light, and in him is no darkness at all. If we say that we have fellowship with him, and walk in darkness, we lie, and do not the truth:
But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanseth us from all sin.
If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.





