I will never be a stranger to Jesus; He knows me better than even I know myself. Yet, very sadly, no matter how much I desire to serve Him, it is very possible for Jesus to become a stranger to me.
As you know, I listen to a lot of sermons by the late preacher David Wilkerson. His sermon, "Love Your God to the Last Breath," (please listen to it here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D2ESBOHX4SQ ) convicted me more than others I have heard these past few weeks. All his sermons touch and challenge me, but this one made me realize that Jesus is becoming a stranger to me. I do not always practice what I preach or reading His Word every day. As Pastor Wilkerson says, I had no time for God, but had time for everything else. How many of you are the same way? I can spend hours playing a computer game while my Bible sits ignored on the table. But Jesus yearns so much for us to fellowship with Him know Him as a friend not as a stranger.
I could easily turn this blog into a finger-pointing game. Look at all the so-called Christian artists, authors, and preachers that speak the name of Jesus, but have no clue who Jesus is? How many could not quote scripture and are living lives seeped in sin? Yet I am not speaking about the hypocrites that proclaim "And honor" Jesus "with their lips, but their heart is far from" Him (Matthew 15:8).
I am writing today about you and me, not evangelists or other entertainers.
I heard someone say just a few days ago that she loved God, but refused to quit swearing and speaking filthy. If we truly love God, we want to please Him, not rebel against Him. If we truly understood who Jesus is, we would not dare to be so bold as to use His name in vain and speak of the King of Kings in jest! He is not to be mocked! We should be on our faces before the Holy of Holies and tremble at the idea of treating Him like an equal. Like less than an equal in many cases.
On this side of heaven we can never fully know or understand God, but we can try. The best way to get to know Jesus is to study His Word. I especially love to read the gospels and the words of Jesus Christ. I never tire of reading the same sermons over and over. I want to read them so often that Jesus' messages of holiness and compassion become a part of me. For example, when someone insults me, my first instinct should be turn the other cheek (Matthew 5:39) and not to call anyone foolish or other demeaning names (Matthew 5:22). Jesus' words should be so ingrained in me that it becomes easier and easier to reflect His character. I cannot do that when His Words are far from my memory like some random and seemingly insignificant conversation I had with a stranger a few weeks or months ago. No, I need to keep studying God's truths until there is no second thought on how to act toward those I struggle to forgive or show compassion toward.
Study to show thyself approved unto God, a workman who need not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of Truth. II Timothy 2:15
My husband and have a wonderful marriage because we continue to build our relationship with great conversations. We make the effort to never make the other a stranger. When we are apart, I cannot wait to see him again and tell him about my day at work, even the silly things. We should never stop communing with Jesus. We are never separated from Christ as we are with people. God is omnipresent, so we can speak to Him 24/7.
While I am all for communing with the Lord as if He is your friend, we still need to remember to be respectful. Not all prayer times need to be on your knees, but at least once a day you should acknowledge the trinity of God the Father, Jesus the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Try not to allow even one aspect of God's character to be a stranger. When you pray make it a time not just of petitions or not even just a time of repenting (although confessing and repenting of your sins is vital to your relationship with Christ), but make it a time of praise. If you are unsure of what to say, just be thankful for who Jesus is and all He has done and will do.
Do not pretend to know the Lord and call yourself a Christian when you do not even attempt to live a holy life. Going to church, giving to charity, being a kind person, none of these things count if you are going against the principles of the Bible. If that is the case, Jesus is indeed a stranger to you if you think a Holy God will tolerate such things.
Now the works of the flesh are evident, which are: adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, dissensions, heresies, envy, murders, drunkenness, revelries, and the like; of which I tell you beforehand, just as I also told you in time past, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God. Galatians 5:19-21
“Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ shall enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father in heaven. Many will say to Me in that day, ‘Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in Your name, cast out demons in Your name, and done many wonders in Your name?’ And then I will declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness!’" Matthew 7:21-23